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Powerful Women Don’t Compete. They Turn Up the Lights


Allison Walsh CEO and Founder of She Believed She Could

In today’s episode of The She Believed She Could™ Podcast, Allison Walsh dives into a topic that every ambitious woman needs to hear: powerful women don’t compete—they turn up the lights.


If you’ve ever felt the sting of comparison, struggled with self-doubt, or wondered if there’s “enough” success to go around, this episode is your guide to shifting your mindset, embracing collaboration, and stepping fully into your brilliance.



Why Power Isn’t a Pie: Embrace Your Full Potential

One of the biggest misconceptions about success is that it’s limited. Allison explains it perfectly:


“Power isn’t a pie. If she gets a slice, it doesn’t mean there’s less for you.”

When you truly believe that there is room for everyone to succeed, you start to expand rather than shrink. This is the mindset of confident, magnetic women—they celebrate others’ wins and use them as inspiration for their own growth.



Comparison Isn’t Jealousy: Use It as Fuel

It’s natural to notice others’ achievements—but Allison reframes comparison in a powerful way:


“Comparison isn’t jealousy. It’s desire pointing you toward your next level and your untapped potential.”

Instead of letting comparison shrink you, use it as a signal. Where you feel the pull or envy can point you toward your next opportunity, skill, or breakthrough. Powerful women use comparison as fuel, not a weapon against themselves.



The Power of Sisterhood: Women Rise Faster Together

Many women are conditioned to see each other as competitors, but Allison reminds us that this is a learned behavior. True growth comes from lifting others as you climb.


“Women rise faster when they rise together. Every breakthrough I’ve had happened because I was surrounded by elevated women who cheered me on and shared opportunities.”

Building your support network, seeking mentorship, and celebrating other women’s successes is not just kind—it’s strategic. Sisterhood strengthens your influence, confidence, and overall career trajectory.




Steps to Stop Dimming and Turn Up Your Light

Allison shares her signature framework for stepping into your full power. It’s called L.I.G.H.T., and it’s a roadmap for visibility, leadership, and personal growth:


  • L – Look Within: Start with awareness. Identify where you’re shrinking, comparing, or waiting for permission.

  • I – Illuminate Others: Celebrate, support, and amplify other women. Spotlights on others don’t dim your light—they strengthen the circle.

  • G – Give Generously: Share your wisdom, encouragement, and voice. Generosity builds trust and influence.

  • H – Hold the Big Vision: Align your actions, decisions, and presence with a vision bigger than your current reality.

  • T – Turn Up Your Own Light: Step into visibility. Tell your story. Advocate for your worth. Stop dimming for anyone.


Following this framework transforms not just your mindset but your life, career, and relationships.



Why You Need to Stop Shrinking

Many women unconsciously minimize their brilliance to make others feel comfortable. Allison reminds us:


“You cannot spend your life in rooms that dim your light and expect to live fully. Expansion requires support, sisterhood, and courage.”

When you allow yourself to be fully seen, when you embrace your gifts and voice, you unlock opportunities and influence that would otherwise remain untapped.



Listen and Be Inspired

If you’re ready to stop shrinking, embrace your full potential, and turn up the lights for yourself and others, this episode is for you.



And remember Allison’s words:

“When you turn up the light for others, you expand your capacity. But when you turn up the light for yourself—you change your life.”

It’s your time to shine unapologetically, and the world is ready for it.




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